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Reviewing Accommodation in Morocco

June 13, 2017
I was lucky enough to be able to travel throughout Morocco this past January and February, so I wanted to share some (hopefully) useful information about potential accommodation should you decide to want to visit Morocco one day. The following is mostly a list of riads, or traditional Moroccan homes with a garden or courtyard in the center, that my travel buddy Rachael and I both personally stayed in.

Marrakech-Riad Caesar

The location of this riad is excellent because it's within the medina and walking right to the middle of the market from here only takes a few minutes. It's still far enough back on a side street so that it's quiet, which I welcomed after experiencing a few days out in Marrakech.

As soon as we arrived, we were greeted with Moroccan mint tea right by the pool. That area is just delightful and a nice place to relax before officially checking in. We found out from our guide that a sultan formerly owned this old mansion. Although the staff didn't seem to know much English, they smiled at us a lot. We were shown our room shortly after arriving and realized soon enough that we were the only other guests staying there.

The internet was fast and strong enough to use in our room. At first our room was really chilly, but between the heater and plenty of blankets, we warmed up soon enough. The bathroom remained cold, but it didn't bother us too much since it's not like we were spending loads of time in there.

To be honest, the breakfast could have been better. We were served our choice of coffee/tea and about six different types of bread, but nothing else. It wasn't a huge deal, but compared to the other riads we stayed in, the breakfast here was lacking.

The small issue we had was that we were awoken to a woman screaming very early in the morning on our second day there. We were very confused by this since we were the only guests, so we didn't know what to make of it. We informed our guide and he found out that the woman working got into a fight with her boyfriend and that's what the yelling was about. That made us feel a little uncomfortable, but since we were checking out shortly after it didn't affect our stay too much.

If I ever go back to Marrakech, I would stay here again for most of the time but then splurge on a really nice riad like Riad Yasmine just for a night.



Casablanca- Club Val D'Anfa Hotel

This is the sole hotel on the list. Truthfully, I'm glad that for the majority of the trip the tour company we went through arranged riads for us. Hotels are just fine, but staying in riads made me feel like I was getting more of a Moroccan experience. Additionally, all of the riads we stayed in were smaller than this hotel so we just felt like we got more individualized service and attention. However, like I said, I didn't mind staying in a hotel for part of the time. The inside of this one was decorated with Moroccan paintings and Berber rugs, so the place had a nice vibe. The staff was friendly and told us that they were going to give us a free room upgrade so that we could be facing the sea. We really preferred this since we didn't have to be by the noisy street. We were mostly just wanting to have an early, quiet night since we had flown in from Qatar earlier that day, so the room upgrade really worked in our favor. The room was comfortable and clean and wifi was available.

I will say that the breakfast there was exceptional! It was buffet-style and it was hard not to over-indulge. They had crepes, many different types of cheeses, omelets, pastries, fresh fruit, and coffee. The staff in charge of the breakfast was very attentive and kept the buffet running smoothly. There are also two restaurants on site, but we didn't have time to try either of them.

When we were there it was much too cold to go swimming, but the pool area did look like it would be a nice place to lounge by in warmer weather. The hotel is also within walking distance to the beach.




Essaouira-La Maison du Sud

I'll start with the positives first. The location is perfect and centrally located in the medina of Essaouira, so it was ideal in that respect.

We had to go up a lot of steps to get to our rooms, which I was nervous about since my back is the worst, but someone from the front desk offered to assist us with our bags so that was really helpful. It's not uncommon for riads to not have elevators, so the extra assistance was appreciated.

The wifi didn't work in our room at all, so if we wanted to connect to the internet, we had to go downstairs and sit in the dining or lounge area by the reception. I didn't mind so much because sometimes it's nice to take a break from social media, but if this is something that bothers you, it's good to know about it going in. The area by reception had ample seating and was rather spacious, so if you do have to do work there will likely be a table available.

I liked the decor and interior of the building, but it was rather dark in there. Again, this wasn't something that really bothered me--it's more of an observation because I know that some people prefer bright, sunny spaces.

Our room was big with a double bed downstairs and then a small upstairs section with another bed. One drawback to the room was that it was extremely humid. Even with the space heater and tons of blankets, I had a chill the whole night. The other negative is the bathroom--it smelled pretty horrendous. Most of the time I'm a pretty laid-back person, but I do have to say that it was awful enough for both me and Rachael to comment on it. I looked up reviews online and others have also mentioned it. We did see some flies in the bathroom, but if we closed the door they were at least confined to that area instead of being around us. From reading others' reviews, I don't believe that every room is like this, so you might want to ask to switch rooms or just check out other rooms before settling in.

Another plus was the breakfast the next day. Apparently I care a lot about what kind of breakfast a place has and can totally be won over with food. We were given an assortment of different types of bread with butter, jam, and honey, a hard boiled egg, Moroccan pancakes, yogurt, juice, and tea or coffee.

Overall, I would maybe stay there again, but I would try to get a different room...or just avoid the bathroom as much as possible. If the only room that was available was the one I stayed in before, I think I'd have to pass.




Merzouga-Riad Nezha

This riad looks like a kasbah, and it was quite cozy. In fact, Rachael and I had spent the past few nights being very cold, and when we first arrived we thought that we were going to have yet another cold night. Luckily, our room did warm up after awhile. The staff members on duty also offered us extra blankets, but we didn't end up needing them. Speaking of the staff members, they were so kind, outgoing, and spent some time chatting with us. We even exchanged our Instagram details with one of the workers and we still follow each other. Since you're out in the desert, there isn't a whole lot to do in the area, so we were grateful for the company.

Also, the vegetarian tagine there was hearty and delicious. After a few bites, Rachael exclaimed, "This is the best tagine I've had so far in all of Morocco!"--which was exactly what I was thinking! We told the workers there that and they laughed at us, but we still never found vegetarian tagine that topped that one.

If you're interested in booking excursions to the desert, they can be organized through the riad.

This riad completely has my vote, mainly because the staff treats you like a friend or family member. Also, I still dream about that tagine.

Ouarzazat-Riad Bochedour

This place was the busiest of all the places we stayed at. We were escorted into a room with a bunch of other tourists and filled out our check-in information while having some welcome tea.

Our room was on the top of the building, so the door to our room opened to the outside instead of to the inside of a building, which did not help with the room temperature. In case you haven't guessed, yes, we were very cold to the point where we thought our heater wasn't working at all. The shower was at least warm, though.

The building looked well-maintained and clean. In fact, it was one of the cleanest places I stayed at in Morocco and the staff was always hard at work taking care of the place.

The breakfast the next day was buffet-style, and there was still plenty of everything when we had our meal. The food was simple, but tasty.

The riad is located on the outskirts of town, but this didn't affect us, as we were only there for a night. We had a busy day of sightseeing, had our dinner, and then were ready to go back to our room and unwind.

Really, the ONLY negative was that the room was much too cold for our liking, but we just weren't comfortable there because of it. I would not stay here again in the winter, but I would give it another chance in warmer weather.

Chefchaouen-Casa Hassan

We stayed here for one night in Chefchaouen because the place where we were supposed to stay was fully booked. It was Rachael's least favorite place, and it is at the bottom of my list, too. The rooms are small and just look a bit run-down. The wall in the bathroom was made of these colored pieces of glass that were translucent so that I could see into another guest's bathroom which was kinda creepy if you were both in the bathroom at the same time. I guess the management there was semi-aware of the problem because several of the pieces of glass were covered with some paper.

The way the rooms are all arranged in the shape of a square with open-air in between. At first we thought that was cool, but the next morning we couldn't say we felt the same. The riad was packed with Chinese tourists and they all got up very early for breakfast. Let's just say that sound travels and we were unable to go back to sleep after they woke us up. When we went down for breakfast, there was nothing left at the buffet really. We had to ask for plates and utensils because they were all gone. There was still about an hour left for breakfast, but we kind of just had the leftovers from the Chinese group.

I think I can speak for the both of us and say that we would both prefer not to stay there again. We really preferred Dar Echaouen instead!


Chefchaouen-Dar Echchaouen

This place was so much better than Casa Hassan. Our room was quieter, cleaner, bigger, and we had a patio to ourselves where we had lunch overlooking the city. Oh...and the views of the city are just wonderful!

When I said "room" earlier, let me clarify and say that we really got a whole suite with a living room. Since we had to go up a lot of steps to get to our room, it was pretty peaceful up there since we were away from the other guests.

There were flowers all around the outside area leading down to the pool. The pool itself looked amazing with plenty of seats surrounding it. What a pity it was too cold for us to swim because it seriously looked so nice!

As this was one of my favorite places, I'd be very likely to return for a second visit should I ever find myself back in Chefchaouen.


Fes-Riad El Yacout

One of the best parts about Fes was staying at this riad. I would give it 5/5 stars--it's simply gorgeous and I felt like I was walking through a palace at times. The mosaics and lavish decor really add to the experience. The stained glass doors of our room added a colorful touch. The staff was very accommodating, and they were always asking us if we needed anything. They were extremely professional and polite at all times.

The courtyard where breakfast is served is equally as beautiful as the rooms. The bathroom was large and had a separate room for the toilet. The water pressure was strong and there was a big tub. The couch area with the small table was just perfect for the times we ordered room service. I could just rave on and on about this place. If you're an Instagram lover like me, you'd find plenty of photo opportunities here.

This place really is a treasure, and it's inside the medina. If we would have stayed longer, we would have liked to have gone to the spa and tried the cooking class.

The pictures below don't do it justice!






Which one of these appeals to you the most?

Trying to Stay Strong

June 1, 2017
So, I was trying to figure out what I would do this summer in this post. Basically, I have very little choice in the matter at this point and have to stay in Shanghai again. It's hard for me to find the words to express this, so I'll just be blunt about it. I need another surgery. I do not have health insurance in the States, so I have to stay here and have it done over the summer. I'm trying VERY, VERY hard to stay positive about this, but I'd be lying if I were saying this is going to be easy for me. I'm still trying to recover from PTSD from what happened to me last summer. Of course needing another surgery was very difficult news to swallow and the absolute last thing I wanted to hear. This will be a challenge for me to get through this mentally.

Let me explain a little bit more. This surgery has nothing to do with my back. It's on my uterus, actually and it's considered a "moderate" surgery. I just keep telling myself that if I could get through last year's surgery, then I can get through anything. I'm going to go ahead and write out some positives so that way I can feel better about this whole thing.

*This summer a few of my friends will be around for part of the summer, so I won't be completely alone here.

* Like I mentioned, compared to the huge ordeal my back surgery was, this surgery is going to be a lot less invasive.

* I am going to move to a bigger apartment here soon, so I'll be all set up in my new place for the summer. In my new place there is an elevator, unlike where I'm living now. I heard that it is hard to walk up stairs while recovering from the surgery I'm getting, so thank goodness I won't have to worry about that.

* At my new apartment, I can get food delivered directly to my door. I'll be restricted as to what I can carry, so now that I know I can order those groceries, I'm relieved.

* I'll have a really relaxing time since I won't be able to do a whole lot during my recovery. I always say I want more time to read, and now I'll have it.

* I can get this surgery done over the summer so I won't have to miss any days with my class and will be ready to teach next year. That's another huge relief. I didn't want to miss any days with my current students mainly because last year I had to miss two months with them.

* This surgery is something that I really need to have done, so once it's over with, I feel like my quality of life will be better.

* I can go to a private hospital this time. Last time, I was in a Chinese public hospital, so not that many people spoke English. At this private hospital, it's just a lot cleaner, I can communicate more easily, and I'm hoping the actual rooms will be better.

* If I have no complications, I only need to stay there for three days which is really nothing compared to the 55 days I spent in the hospital last summer.

* This surgery should be covered by my health insurance. I will have to pay about $8,000 (USD) up front, but I should eventually get it all back.

* One of my wonderful friends has already agreed to sign for me while I go under. I am relieved to know that this is taken care of because last year for my back surgery it posed a huge problem.

* My bosses were very understanding. I felt nervous to tell them that I had another health issue, but one of my bosses said, "You can't help these things. Let's face it together." I don't have to agonize about losing my job or anything like that, which is less for me to worry about.

Yes, I won't be able to go home and see my family for the second summer in a row, but I know they understand and I'll just have to find a way to make up for lost time later. Since I'm a teacher, I really do get a lot of vacation time, so I'll be able to go home next summer or possibly for Chinese New Year.

At this point, I'm just anticipating the surgery anxiously, and want to get it done already so that I can start with the recovery process, which is about two months. Again, that's no time at all compared to my back surgery which took a year and I still have restrictions.

Has there been a time in your life that really challenged you? How did you find the inspiration and strength to stay positive through something difficult?

Blog Posts I've Yet to Hit Publish On

May 30, 2017
We all have those posts sitting in our drafts section that are either unfinished or we're just simply holding back from publishing. I saw this post floating around the internet and figured I would join in, too!

Stock Photo via: Ashley Creates Things
* Iceland Recap- I wrote about the highlights of my Iceland trip and the first part of my trip, but I never finished writing about the second part of what I did. I started to, but then I moved to China, so I was busy adjusting to my new life and preferred to write about that. I thought I would eventually "get to" my Iceland post, but there it is in my drafts section still unfinished. At this point, I'll probably just delete it because now so much time has passed and the details from the trip aren't fresh in my mind.

* A post about why I think I'm single- This one is reflective and deeply personal, yet part of me still feels compelled to want to share it. I just haven't worked up the nerve to do so at the moment.

* My Struggle with Weight- Again, this is another personal one. It started out okay, but it started to get self-deprecating, so I don't know if I'll ever be publishing this.

* What I Want in a Relationship- After my ex-boyfriend and I parted ways, I wrote this post. I'll just summarize it for you and say that the number one thing on my list is someone who challenges me to be better. That still rings true today, but I feel this isn't exactly the kind of post I want to share on my blog for now.

* A World Bucket List- There are just too many places on here, so I decided to focus on regions instead such as my European Bucket List. I wrote one for China, too.

* Must Haves For Any Hospital Stay- Since I spent 55 days in a Chinese hospital, I think I'm pretty much an expert on what to bring, but writing this post made me shudder because it reminded me of my time there. I need to move forward and don't really want to think about that anymore.

* My Financial Plan- This one drastically changed since I had the unexpected cost of a major surgery, so my plan was no longer relevant. I did end up publishing this revised one.

* My Summer Plans- I wrote a post about whether or not I should just go home this summer. I've made my decision, or rather, it was made for me. Eventually, I'll post what happened and what I'm going to do, but for now I just still need some more answers myself!

* Monthly Book Review Link Ups- I started this post one month when I read a lot of books, but then I realized that I didn't like any of the books I read so I didn't want to share that post. To be fair, the books weren't books that I picked out for myself--they were from other teachers that were leaving China. Sadly, I just haven't been reading enough books lately to post about this.

* A bad dating story- Several friends have suggested I post about one of my really bad dates from when I was living in Korea. I'm hesitant to share that, but it is a bizarre and funny story...and I love telling stories.

Would you like for me to actually post about any of these? What are some posts you're not willing to share?

Disney, Birthday, and Other Updates

May 8, 2017
I haven't really had much time to blog lately, so I thought an update should be in order.

Fun 

Shanghai Disney- For my birthday, two of my friends and I visited Shanghai Disney. The theme park opened last spring when I was in the hospital. I'd been wanting to go so badly but had to wait until my back healed more. It was hard watching everyone go and having to always say, "I'm not ready to go yet." Happily, I FINALLY got a chance to visit a few weeks ago! The best part of it was that I could ride almost all of the rides besides Tron and one of the water rides. We started out by riding Soaring over the Horizon--you're just lifted up and "flown" to different landmarks all over the world. We also walked by the castle, went to the Alice in Wonderland maze, and rode Jet Packs. Another cool ride we tried was Buzz Lightyear Planet Rescue--you get to shoot at Z's along the way, and your score is displayed on a screen in front of you, so you're competing with whoever you ride the ride with. The highlight for me was going on Pirates of the Caribbean Battle for the Sunken Treasure. The ride was thrilling, it was one of the longer rides, and it used new technology to make you feel like you were part of all of the excitement. We had dinner at The Cheesecake Factory afterwards--their chocolate chip cookie dough cheesecake is TOO delicious. We ended our day at the theme park by doing a little shopping. I don't typically buy lots of trinkets, so I didn't think I'd leave with anything, but they had a section full of Shanghai Minnie stuff! Minnie Mouse is dressed like an old fashioned, classy Shanghai lady and I couldn't resist, so I left with a Shanghai Minnie notebook and a Shanghai Minnie/Mickey mug set. A fun-filled day at the theme park was just what I needed. I went to the park thinking I'd just like to go once, but I didn't get to ride everything that I wanted, so I will surely be going back. I heard the Tarzan show was good, and I didn't get to see any shows, so that's more motivation to want to return.  




Hair straightening- As a birthday gift to myself, I finally bit the bullet and paid to get my hair straightened. I'd been wanting to do it for almost two years now, but it's roughly $200 to do so. I just felt bad about spending that much cash on my hair when I was already getting treatments and regular highlights. I got my hair done in January and with my new style, I don't need to keep going to the salon to get highlights or my roots done. Since I was saving money there, I decided to try out the hair straightening. Overall, I'm pretty satisfied with it. It's supposed to last for a year. While my hair isn't completely frizz-free, it's looking A LOT better. It has been rather humid here lately, so I got it done just in time because Shanghai summers are sticky. The only negative aspect of it is that now the tips of my hair are pretty dry, but mostly I'm happy with my decision. 

Birthday Celebrations- On my actual birthday, I had to work, but I arranged a dinner at the Hard Rock Cafe Shanghai to celebrate. My food was good and of course so was the company. I kind of like birthday dinners because you have complete control over the guest list, ha ha!


Sometimes as an expat, you don't get too many gifts since you aren't around your family and many of your closest friends. I have to say, I got spoiled this year on my birthday! Rachael and our friend Keri gave me a coupon for a free brunch and manicure. Another friend got me a scarf, and my friend Lauren got me a whole bunch of goodies that were so thoughtful and meaningful to our friendship. Every single gift she gave me was something we had in common or something we joked or talked about before. The coolest thing was this clear lipstick with a flower inside that changes color when you apply it! She even gave me a purple blanket shaped like a mermaid's tail. I also ended up getting a bottle of Chanel Noir perfume, a bottle of Burberry weekend perfume, a small plant, two bottles of wine, and a pack of three L'Occitane lip balms. Can you tell "gifts" is one of my love languages?

Craft'd class- There's a place in Shanghai that offers all sorts of crafts for expats. Rachael saw that they were offering a class where you could make your own beauty products, so our friend Keri and I joined her. I chose to make body lotion bars and eye gel. The body lotion bars smell scrumptious and really do wonders for dry skin. It was a fun way to spend an evening!

Xintiandi- I had two appointments in this area of Shanghai, but afterwards, I decided to walk around and do a bit of exploring. Xintiandi is really one of my favorite places in all of Shanghai! There are lots of open air cafes, beautiful architecture, shopping, all kinds of restaurants, and it's always bustling. I couldn't resist stopping at Spread the Bagel, which is one of my favorite places for a quick meal in the area. 


Friends' Birthdays- Besides my own birthday, I went and celebrated another friend's b-day at a Mexican bar. It was a lot of fun! This weekend, I went to a friend's birthday brunch which included good conversation, cinnamon rolls, and mimosas. Can't complain about that! 

Work 

My open class is finished. Open class consisted of about seven of my peers watching me teach and evaluating me. Then they had to write comments about me on Quip where everyone could see them. That gave me an incredible amount of anxiety, and I'm really glad it's over with. The good news is that some people that signed up for my class forgot to come so there were less people watching me than what I initially thought. I don't think I ever want to do another open class for teachers. It went well and I got all positive feedback, and my students behaved themselves and learned from my lesson, but I got way too in my head and stressed beforehand. Next year, I'm going to ask them to please pick someone else. I feel like there are plenty of others who don't mind that sort of thing, but I do!!

We went on a field trip to Shanghai Sculpture Park. The kids loved it because they got to play all day. It wasn't a very educational field trip, but I was happy to see my students have so much fun. One of my students said to me, "At home I have so many rules. At school there are so many rules. On this field trip I finally felt free!" So many of my students told me that it was the best field trip they had ever gone on.


 It's that time of year again when teachers are requesting their co-teachers for next year. We don't get to decide ourselves, so my co-teacher and I are worried about who we will be with. We just want to stay together again but don't know if that will happen for us because we worked together for two years in a row. I say if it ain't broke, don't fix it... I guess it's pointless to think about it too much because I put my request in, but ultimately it's out of my hands.

Health 

My co-teacher and I couldn't stop coughing for about three weeks. I just felt crappy all around. The coughing got so bad that I was up for hours at night before I could finally fall asleep. We knew that we had the same thing because we had similar symptoms and got it at about the same time. My co-teacher said she would go to the doctors to get checked this weekend and let me know what "we" have, which I found quite funny. What I did not find so amusing was that we both have acute bronchitis. I thought I was being a baby or that it was just allergies, so now I know I at least had a legitimate excuse for feeling so miserable.

Last Thursday, I had to go into the hospital where I had my back surgery last May. My school prepared a red flag that I was supposed to give the surgeon and his team who operated on me. A red flag is a "very Chinese" kind of honor that can be hung up in their wing. Basically, they're getting recognition for their good work. My surgeon did give me an excellent surgery, but I didn't personally like him too much because he fat shamed me at least three times. The other three doctors that worked with me were SO nice and patient. I know that they have a huge workload, but one of them even gave me his personal number so that I could message him with any questions. They really did help me a lot. When I walked into the orthopedic building, I ran into one of my doctors in the elevator. I think he was happy to see me, and oddly enough, the feeling was mutual. When I walked to the spinal unit, I saw two more of my doctors. As weird as it sounds, it was kind of nice to be reunited with them--I guess I spent so much damn time there that we became friendly. Even my surgeon seemed happy to see me. He called me his American friend in Chinese, and when I presented the red flag to him he wanted to get a picture with his personal cell phone. He didn't even call me fat that day, so I was pretty pleased. Seriously though, he really did a good job on my surgery, so I am glad I went to him. God forbid anything happens again with my spine again...but if it does I would go back to him. I gave him a hand-written thank you card, too. The doctors thanked me for stopping by and delivering that, so it was pleasant to have that kind of closure.

Speaking of closure, my one year anniversary of my trip to Urumqi just came up. That's when I woke up one day and couldn't walk because of my back issues and had to get flown back to Shanghai on a stretcher to have my operation. I thought the one year mark would never come. The recovery was a long and painful process, and I still have to be very careful, but I'm just thankful to get most of my independence back! I hope I can put this chapter of my life behind me and just move forward, even though I'm not ever going to be back to what I was. 

Have you ever been to a Disney park outside of the USA?

Love/Hate Relationships

May 3, 2017
Are there certain products or services or even parts of everyday life that you just can't make up your mind about? I've thought of a few that I have a love/hate relationship with. Sometimes the feelings are simultaneous, but sometimes I lean more towards love and then change my mind.

Facebook- Back in 2007 when I signed up for Facebook, I loved it! I do enjoy taking pictures and found that Facebook made it so easy to share pictures among friends. Also, at that time, I was only Facebook friends with my close friends, so I felt pretty free in what I shared since I had a private account. I still like Facebook for the photo sharing options, and it is a good way to keep in touch with people from all over the world. Because of Facebook, I was able to meet up with some of my old friends that I would have lost contact with otherwise. I like some of the groups I'm in like my Spinal Fusion Support Group and a few blogging groups. However, I'm sure I'm not alone for thinking that Facebook is the worst sometimes, too. The political posts, friend requests from weirdos, the spying, the unflattering tagged pics, the people you feel obligated to be friends with, the having to watch what you say on your own account, seeing the same post hundreds of times, and the Candy Crush/other annoying game requests are all reasons that Facebook is not my favorite form of social media. Still, the pros must outweigh the cons because I still have my account, right?

Tieks- In this post, I mentioned how frustrated I was with my pair of Tieks. They were badly scuffed after less than four days of wear! Oh, and they aren't a cheap pair of shoes, either. The customer service department didn't respond the way I would have liked after I sent them an e-mail with pictures. Still, since I can't return my Tieks, I wear them almost every day. I love the style and they are pretty comfortable, even on days when I'm walking around a lot in Shanghai. 

Gel nails- I brought this up before--gel nails are so convenient because of how long they last. In Shanghai, there are such good nail salons that are cheaper than what I would pay in the States. There are tons of options for nail art, too! Yes, I could get nail art on a regular manicure, but then I'm paying more for something that only lasts around a week. With gel nails, I used to splurge on nail art since some of my manicures lasted me a month. The drawback of course is that gel nails ruined my real nails. At one point, my real nails were so flimsy that 8 out of 10 were broken. I've stopped doing gel manicures for a few months now and probably won't get another gel mani for a long time. My nails are still recovering.

Unfollow app for Instagram- If you have an Instagram account, I'm sure you've been followed and unfollowed more times than you can count. Like many bloggers, I downloaded an app to see who unfollows me. I do find it really useful and unfollow people who have added me just to get me to follow them back only to unfollow me once I have followed them. One day, I was scrolling through my feed and saw that someone who I thought was a good friend had unfollowed me! It really hurt my feelings, and I got so mad at her that I did a super mature thing and defriended her on Facebook. Sometimes when I look at who unfollowed me I do think, "Ouch!" from time to time. I don't take it personally when randos unfollow me, but if you're a good friend...then apparently I do take it very personally! 

Chick-fil-A- Luckily, I don't have to worry about this one anymore since I live in China now, but back when I lived in Georgia, I would crave Chick-fil-A. On the other hand, it felt wrong to eat there because the company's stance on gay marriage. To make it even more confusing, my gay friends still ate there. 

We Chat- We Chat is so useful in many ways! If you want to host an event, just add your friends and start a group. I am also really all about paying by We Chat. It's so handy because you can just use We Chat Wallet to pay your friends back what you owe them immediately without having to fumble for change. I don't know what I'll do in the States without it. But...Sometimes I'm in so many groups that after a few hours I have hundreds of unread messages. It's so much to catch up on! I don't want to be attached to my phone every second, but sometimes I feel like I have to be because we communicate for work through We Chat.

Small Talk- I'm bad at small talk and don't enjoy it when strangers come up and talk to me. I still continue to do this because sometimes it's just a stage you have to go through before you actually become friends with someone. If I quit partaking in all forms of small talk, it would be very difficult to make new friends and establish those deeper connections. I guess sometimes it is a necessary evil for many introverts.

Do you have any love/hate relationships? What would be on your list?